Let’s face it – the dating game is rigged against men. Before a date, have you questioned yourself if the girl would end up liking you? Are you are going to get lucky? You are dating a girl in order to get the girl to like you. This article is going to show you just that – how to get a girl to like you so much that she will agree to go on subsequent dates with you, and possibly more.
In one sentence, how you get a girl to like you is to use communication and humor to attract them. True, women are naturally attracted to money and fame, but let’s analyze why it is so in the first place. Subconsciously, women take money and fame as a surrogate to a character which is interesting and intelligent, and therefore are genetically wired to be attracted to those with such attributes.
Therefore, if we look at a deeper level, if we could convey the same values (being interesting and intelligent), we would be able to get a girl to like you all the same, even though you are not rich or famous.
David DeAngelo (the famous dating guru who wrote the bestselling ebook “Double Your Dating”) once said, “It’s far better to ATTRACT a woman than to CHASE her. If a woman is attracted to you, half the game is over.”
Therefore, the correct mindset when using communication and humor to get a girl to like you is to aim to get a girl attracted to you rather than to chase her. First, by looking at what a girl wants (and giving that to her), you could get a girl to like you in no time.
Topping the list of what every girl wants is sense of humor. If you could get a girl to laugh, half of the battle is over. Further down the list is confidence, intelligence, leadership (or dominance), being adventurous, challenging and romantic. However, if there is one thing that you should work on that would get a girl to like you is your humor.
The key of using humor to attract a girl is to be challenging at the same time. This could be accomplished by not answering a girl directly when asked a question. For example, if a girl asks you if you are seeing other women, don’t say yes or no. Instead, say, “Yes, I do. In fact I meet up with my mom regularly for tea.” Deliberately look as if you misunderstood her question.
Girls would normally keep on testing you to see if you would relent to their requests. If you do comply, you would fail their tests. The answer therefore is to ‘pass the test’ by being challenging and humorous at the same time. Note that if you’re being challenging without being humorous, you’re just being a jerk.
In conclusion, it is fairly simple to get a girl to like you. Be challenging and use your sense of humor, and you would be able to attract the girl that you desire so effectively that it is almost magical.